When homeowners choose Long Island, N.Y.-based Alure Home Improvements for a remodel, they are invited to the companyâs 8,000-square-foot showroom in East Meadow, where they can walk through full-size, working kitchens, bathrooms, basements and sunrooms; learn about insulation and modular construction; choose colors, styles, materials and finishes; watch their kitchens be transformed on a state-of-the-art design imaging system; and see their future bathroom in three dimensions. Itâs a design Disneyland, with associates on hand to tease out the homeownersâ wants, needs and pain points while educating them about their options.
âWe show them all the different optionsâgood/better/bestâand tell them why,â says custom kitchen and bath sales and design manager Gina Bonura. âWe donât upsell, because weâre building a relationship. Weâre fulfilling clientsâ needs with products and services, and thatâs the best way to âupsell.â Itâs all about educating customers to upsell themselves, and they absolutely will. But the days of the hard sell are gone.â
For John Day, principal and director of interior design at Cambridge, Mass.-based LDa Architecture and Interiors, that means asking a lot of questions and getting to the core of what people appreciate and value, where they want to make bold design statements, and whether theyâre choosing items because they perform well or bring them joy. Itâs important to Day that his clients have enough information to make good choices so they donât feel like their remodel got out of hand. âEven our most budget-unconscious clients want to feel like theyâre getting good value,â he says.
Rochester, N.Y., developer and home builder Riedman puts considerable resources into offering the most current designs and staying ahead of the trends at its design center in Victor, N.Y., for this reason, and president David Riedman says it pays off. Buyers are making more âadditional investmentsâ (the PC term for spending more money), he says, and the design center differentiates Riedman from competitors. Home buyers âwalk away from the experience with the home they want as opposed to feeling like they were sold as much cabinetry as possible.â
Upserving, Not Upselling
Times have changed since McDonaldâs chairman Ray Kroc introduced upselling to the masses by asking customers if they wanted fries with their sandwiches. Kroc knew that people buy more when theyâre already in buying mode, and his directive nearly doubled fries sales. However, consumers today are warier and better informed than they were in the 20th century.
âPeople donât want to be soldâthey want to be educated,â says Suzanne Felber, founder of Lifestylist Brands, a home-design information resource and consultancy. âWhen they trust you, they will buy from you.â Sales centers need to become educational tools instead of sales tools, Felber says, and builders need to inform buyers about the choices theyâre making if they want to avoid warranty issues. When homeowners donât know how to take care of granite, for example, âeverybody loses.â
Jane Meagher, president of Success Strategies, a consulting firm that has helped builders in more than 120 markets create strategic design studios and trained thousands of design studio associates, calls the process of informing and education home buyers upserving.
âWhen you upsell, youâre focused on driving more revenue at any cost,â she says. âWhen you upserve, you educate customers about higher-value products, and if they see the value and decide to invest, they end up with homes more closely aligned with their wants and needs, reflecting their unique personalities.â
At national home builder Toll Brothersâ 25 design centers throughout the country, associates take âa very distilled, custom approach for every customer,â says chief marketing officer Kira Sterling, getting to know home buyersâ lifestyles and how they intend to live in their homes so they can tailor presentations and offerings to the buyersâ needs. Design center staff members are reminded to guard against preconceived notions based on factors like generation and gender, because âeveryone is a unique individual,â Sterling says.
Alexa Drees, senior design consultant at Jacksonville, Fla.-based Drees Homes, begins building relationships with home buyers when she greets them at their first design center appointment with a chalkboard at the front door that says, âWelcome home, Mr. and Mrs. Smith.â
Educated, Design-Savvy Clients
Remodeling a house can be a scary prospect. Homeowners worry about whether their colors will work or if their tiles will go out of style. Today, though, many of them have access to digital resources like Houzz and Pinterest, and theyâre more design-savvy than ever before.
âPeople are asking for things that are high-end that they wouldnât have asked for before,â Bonura says. âThey see it, and now they want it. So theyâre walking in upselling themselves before we even get to them.â
The downside to this, says Drees, is that her clients generally have no idea how much the pretty things they see on TV cost, and theyâre disappointed when they canât squeeze $80,000 worth of upgrades into a $10,000 budget. âAchieving those looks for less has definitely been a challenge for all design centers to overcome,â she says.

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Increased exposure to design media has elevated many clients' tastes, as reflected in this remodel by LDa
Day says clientsâ Pinterest boards are helpful because he and his staff can spot trends in the clientsâ preferences, but they should be conversation starters only. If customers come in with a hard-and-fast idea about what they want based on media and social media, he says, heâll engage them in a deeper conversation about how they plan to use their houses.
Clients also need to understand, Day says, that the houses they see on HGTV and Houzz didnât just pop up overnight. âWe live in a digital world, but building is still an Old World process,â he says. âI think thatâs the hardest learning curve. It doesnât come together like it does on TV, and it typically costs more than they expect.â
Chris Landis, AIA, co-owner of Washington, D.C.-based renovation and remodeling firm Landis Architects/Builders, says his clients often find the look they want on Houzz but havenât focused on actual products. He uses 3D software to help them see colors, textures, perspectives, and elevations. Software called Builder Trend keeps all their choices in a cloud portal so they can visit any time and share with friends and family. Itâs great for clients who travel, Landis says, âand itâs always there so they can go back and revisit their decisions.â
National home builder Meritage recently began offering Envision, an online application that lets home buyers see and research many of their options as they prepare for their design center appointments, to all its new customers last year. Sacramento, Calif.-based BlackPine Communities also uses the Envision portal to make selecting products more comfortable and fun, says founder, president and chief financial officer Michael E. Paris. He has seen that âthe more prepared folks are and the more ability they have to see and feel things in our design center, the more exponentially their tendency to spend, so to speak, increases.â
They Deserve It
For the most part, todayâs buyers are pretty certain they deserve outdoor fireplaces, connected-system coffeemakers, and prestigious stoves with recognizable knobs. Offering those products gives remodelers a leg up in the marketplace. A recent survey of potential home buyers commissioned by gas grill and fireplace company Napoleon found that 52% of potential homeowners had a more positive impression of builders that offer upgrades.
âWe learned from the Hot Spots Research Study that success isnât just about upselling products but more about designing spaces and incorporating amenities that increase the emotional appeal of a room,â says Stephen Schroeter, Napoleonâs senior vice president of sales.

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This model by Epic Homes shows off the contemporary styles today's consumers want
Jerry Gloss, a senior partner at Louisville, Colo.-based architectural firm KGA Studio Architects, says more clients are asking for things like wine rooms, drop zones, and professional kitchens, which he calls âI-deserve-it features.â Baby boomers are especially ripe for upselling, Gloss says, as long as no one uses that term. âBoomers donât want to be sold to, but theyâre tired of settling. They figure theyâve worked their whole life for this house, and with lower interest rates, their dollar goes a little bit further.â
Remodelers and builders are wise to target affluent empty nesters who are often trading down in square footage, have discretionary dollars, and âfeel like itâs their time to shine,â Meagher says. But she points out that millennials tend to feel no less entitled to superior products than their boomer parents.
Raised in a world full of hyper-segmented choices, millennials donât want to live in a box that looks like the neighborsâ house, Felber says, and they expect the latest technology. âToilets, for example, are probably the most unsexy thing we could talk about, but with water issues today, the technology is changing. Millennials are sensitive about the environment, and theyâre not going to settle for a standard toilet anymore.â
Builders Design regional vice president Lesley McCarthy says curation is key to reaching all these buyers, who feel an immediate sense of trust when design centers feature trend-forward products theyâve seen on Houzz and HGTV. Design centers stocked with tired, old products and fixtures lose sales, says Mary DeWalt, president of DeWalt Design Group, an Austin, Texas-based model home merchandiser, because buyers in every segment of the market are constantly exposed to aesthetically and functionally superior products. âItâs important,â she says, âto have opportunities for buyers to make themselves happy and also add to your bottom line.â
âAs buyers invest more money into their homes, there is and should be a direct correlation to their increased satisfaction with the house they create,â Meagher says. âWe shouldnât have any guilt around making money as long as weâre serving customers with integrity and making sure theyâre thrilled and delighted.â